28.9.09

problem solved, well partly anyway.

About a month ago, my mom recieved two phone calls. I believe I blogged about that previously. Well, the phone call that got under my skin the most was the one about me and travis. Without going into a ton of detail, it was basically said that he was only dating me for one reason. You can probably guess what they said that reason was.

Well, my  mom never told me who it was, but by a process of elimination and some events that recently took place, i now pretty much know who it is.

I know this, because another comment was said, and this one hurt my feelings more than it made me mad. So let me clarify some things about myself for you:

Popular to contrary belief, I do not lower my standards and I do NOT settle for anything less than the best. I would NEVER EVER date someone just because there wasnt anyone else around for me to date. Thats wrong on so many levels, and just not me at all. It hurts my feelings that someone would tell my mom that travis and i are only dating because there isnt anyone else around to date. One thats kind of an insult to both of us depending on which way you look at it, and two what does anyone else know? The sad thing is, that it is an adult making these comments. An adult that i thought knew me pretty well, and would know me well enough to trust me to make smart choices, I have never given anyone a reason not to trust me. And here's a great idea, pay attention to your OWN children and quit worrying about everyone else's...when there is NOTHING to worry about to begin with.

I am me. I know how I feel. I make my own decisions. You are not me, you dont not know how i feel, and you definetly dont make my decisions.

So, it all boils down to one thing...mind your own business please(:

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